We have all heard the saying about the eyes being the window to her soul. Well, the eyes can also be the window to her attraction degree to you. You can tell quite a bit about what exactly a girl is thinking or feeling if you actually pay attention to their eyes when they are connecting with you. In reality, the eyes can even hold clues to tell if a woman is interested in you.Listen up, pay attention, open your eyes wide and look for these eye contact of attraction clues.
The Vertical Scan – Catch her checking you out!
Do not blink or you could miss this one! The vertical examine is essentially the “once over.” When eye contact is briefly made, her eyes will fall and look at the rest of you from head to toe. Yes, this is the exact same method men check out women, and yes, women do it too!
Be conscious of her eyes flicking downward right after you catch her glance, since this could indicate you just caught her sneaking a peek. This is a fantastic body language signal that says she was interested in your face and wished to see what else you have going on, to glimpse the total product.
If the vertical scan is followed by a shy smile or if she quickly turns away to try to keep you from seeing she was checking you out, this is a sure indicator that the woman would be receptive to approach from you.
As soon as you meet a girl you are drawn to, be sure you turn away to give her a chance to do her vertical scan. However, just as she is examining you, turn suddenly and catch her in the act! This will almost definitely leave her vulnerable and open and you have gained the advantage.
The Horizontal Scan – Go for the kiss!
So she’s examined you with the vertical scan to reveal her interest. After effectively approaching her and setting up connection and an emotional connection, she’s giving you the horizontal scan. What the heck does this mean? This is a big eye contact of attraction sign normally suggesting that the woman would like you to come in closer.
She will scan your face, her eyes scanning yours from left to right, right to left. She is trying to get a read on you, while at the same time, letting her eyes do the talking instead of coming directly out and asking you to come in closer. This typically takes place after the preliminary attraction has actually been created, and an emotional connection has been made.
When you detect the horizontal scan, it’s time to move in for the kiss!
Dilated Pupils – The eyes don’t lie!
Recall Puss in Boots with “that look?” The look that makes you go awwwwww. This is just what the pick-up artists call the Doggy Dinner Bowl Look. This look is when the woman is so attracted to the guy that she has huge dilated pupils, a slightly lowered and slanted head, and a look of expectancy which resembles a doggy awaiting his dinner.
This look generally involves the pupils of the eyes becoming significantly dilated. This means the pupil becomes so large that even more black than the color is revealed in the eyes. This occurs as an unconscious response to the excitement or attraction the woman is feeling to you. However, it is not her dinner bowl that she is expecting.